Honoring a Life: Friends Remember Christa Bauer Gilley with a Colorful Tribute
CHARLESTON, S.C. – In a heartfelt display of love and remembrance, a group of friends gathered to paint the iconic Folly Beach graffiti boat in honor of Christa Bauer Gilley. The event took place this past Monday, as they sought to raise awareness about domestic violence while celebrating the life of a remarkable woman who tragically lost her life earlier this month.
A Heartbreaking Loss
Christa, a 38-year-old native of Summerville, was found unresponsive in her Texas home on October 8. At the time of her passing, she was eight weeks pregnant. According to reports from the Houston Police Department, it was Christa’s husband, Lee Mongerson Gilley, who called authorities, claiming his wife had taken her own life. However, following an autopsy, the Harris County Institute of Forensic Sciences determined that Christa’s cause of death was due to “compression of the neck,” categorizing it as a homicide.
Lee Gilley was arrested on October 11 and charged with capital murder. He was released on a $1,000,000 bond on October 21, but conditions of his release prohibit him from having any contact with the Bauer family or the two young children he shares with Christa.
Raising Awareness for a Cause
As the paintbrushes danced on the graffiti boat, a family friend, Trae Ray, spoke about the importance of the moment. “We are really trying still to process this, but what I have learned from other domestic violence victims is that domestic violence lives in silence,” Ray explained. “The more we can get awareness out there, the better off everybody is.”
To further support the Bauer family during this challenging time, friends have established a GoFundMe campaign aimed at covering legal, travel, and childcare expenses for Christa’s young children, who are both under five years old. The fundraiser has already raised an impressive $179,398 toward its $200,000 goal.
A Celebration of Life
Christa was remembered by her friends as a compassionate caregiver and a dedicated professional. She worked as a physical therapist and professor in Houston, bringing a genuine spark to everyone she encountered. One close friend, Liza McGilvery, shared touching memories of their long-lasting friendship, emphasizing what a multifaceted person Christa truly was.
“Christa was so much more than a tragic news story. She was a friend, a sister, a daughter, a mom, an aunt, a strong independent woman,” Liza reflected. “I will honor her and keep her memory alive, because that is something that can never be taken away.”
Support Resources Available
The tragic circumstances surrounding Christa’s death serve as a powerful reminder of the ongoing issue of domestic violence. October, designated as Domestic Violence Awareness Month, is an opportunity to spread awareness and provide support. There are several local organizations available for those in need, such as My Sister’s House, which offers free services including a crisis hotline, private shelter, and court advocacy. Additionally, the Palmetto Hope Network provides resources for victims of violent crimes, including domestic abuse.
For those who may be in need of help on a national level, the National Domestic Violence Hotline is available 24/7 at 1-800-799-7233, offering support and guidance for anyone experiencing domestic violence or needing assistance.
As friends continue to honor Christa with love and remembrance, her legacy will undoubtedly inspire others to seek help and find their voices in the fight against domestic violence.
